I’ve always had strength inside me But lately I’m starting to know That whatever I try to distract me I can’t avoid missing you so You cast me aside the moment I meant something special to you I spilled right into your home life And that would never do You made it clear … Continue reading Strength
Category: Marriage
All Change
Today I have changed the name of my site from 'The local government officer, the charity worker and her lover' to 'Elana's Ink'. This represents the changes that have taken place in my life since I set up the site last year. 'The local government officer' and I separated when he couldn't deal with the … Continue reading All Change
The ‘Sex Surge’
The 'local government officer' (LGO) and I continued for a while as described in The Buttered Bun post. One day he found an article by Karin Jones about her increased sexual desire at a certain age and how this affected her: she wanted lots of sex and no commitment. In another article she made reference … Continue reading The ‘Sex Surge’
The buttered bun
Ok so I understand this is the phrase that describes sex with a woman when she has just been with someone else. The local government officer was surprisingly turned on by his wife, the charity manager, fucking her new lover. Consequently we had some of the best sex of our marriage! Apparently it was the … Continue reading The buttered bun
Our rules
The rules we created for our open marriage
The beginning of a fine mess…
My husband and I celebrated 16 years of marriage in May 2018 and 21 years as a couple 2 months later; well we didn't do anything to celebrate actually which was quite normal for us as he prefers spending money on cars than anything else! Though to be fair, we bought a new house together … Continue reading The beginning of a fine mess…
