Strength

I’ve always had strength inside me But lately I’m starting to know That whatever I try to distract me I can’t avoid missing you so   You cast me aside the moment I meant something special to you I spilled right into your home life And that would never do   You made it clear … Continue reading Strength

The ‘Sex Surge’

The 'local government officer' (LGO) and I continued for a while as described in The Buttered Bun post.  One day he found an article by Karin Jones about her increased sexual desire at a certain age and how this affected her: she wanted lots of sex and no commitment.  In another article she made reference … Continue reading The ‘Sex Surge’

The beginning of a fine mess…

My husband and I celebrated 16 years of marriage in May 2018 and 21 years as a couple 2 months later; well we didn't do anything to celebrate actually which was quite normal for us as he prefers spending money on cars than anything else!  Though to be fair, we bought a new house together … Continue reading The beginning of a fine mess…

Compartmentalisation (or compartmentalization according to your preferred spelling)

Yesterday when my lover was leaving to have a meal with his wife and in-laws,  I asked him how he could do that to me (i.e. experience the great sex we'd just shared), just before going out with them?  He said 'compartmentalise I guess'.  It got me thinking about the differences between men and women … Continue reading Compartmentalisation (or compartmentalization according to your preferred spelling)