Yesterday when my lover was leaving to have a meal with his wife and in-laws, I asked him how he could do that to me (i.e. experience the great sex we'd just shared), just before going out with them? He said 'compartmentalise I guess'. It got me thinking about the differences between men and women … Continue reading Compartmentalisation (or compartmentalization according to your preferred spelling)
I would never have shared this private information if my current lover had taken the time and trouble to talk to me about our relationship and the feelings we have for one another, since the start of our affair.